Windshield Wisdom #63 - Why do we make networking so hard?

 

This was my home for the last 2 weeks...and it was fantastic!

For some of you, roughing it in a tent may not be your thing, but let me tell you what, I met some of the nicest people, and had some surprising conversations, while walking around the campground or when hiking on trails in the backcountry.  

All of this got me thinking, why do we make networking so hard?  After all, I had meaningful conversations with people from all over the world by following 3 simple rules of the trail...and that's what this week's video is all about.  

Three Big Takeaways

1.  When you're networking, take the pressure off by simply being interested in the stories and experiences of the person in front of you.  

2.  When in doubt, ask them questions about what they're sharing.  It may be cliche, but most people really do like to talk about themselves if the questions are appropriate.  

3.  Your experiences can add a lot to the conversation.  Don't be afraid to share a little about yourself, especially if it demonstrates a commonality that makes you more likeable, or a skill that establishes your expertise.  

Matt Middendorp is a nationally acclaimed speaker and sales coach with over 20 years of experience turning connections into customers and advocates. In 2013, Matt founded Sales Math, and debuted his “Formula for Success” sales training system to bankers across the country. From the beginning, Matt’s clients have experienced learning that is fun, meaningful, and makes a difference in the real world. Today, Matt’s core philosophies of “Learn Together, Do Together, Grow Together” are taught through in-person coaching, online as part of the Cool Bankers Academy, and by his leadership of the Cool Bankers Club Facebook Group. His clients are making their goals faster and easier based on the confidence and skills gained from learning a sales process tailored to ensure they aren’t “just another banker” in the communities they serve.  

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